my philosophy...

Sometimes like fucks you over royally and you think that you'll never get over it.
It feels like you have reached your lowest and there is no possible way it can ever get better, and all you want is for the pain to stop, all you want is the hurt to end.
But you have to remember that everything happens for a reason and the bad things, even though they are pretty bad at times, will stop hurting after a while, and even the pain of a broken heart loses its sting.
The hurt is part of life, it is part of growing and learning and figuring out who you really are.
It's part of learning from mistakes so hopefully you won't make the same one twice.
You are given a choice.
Everyday you are given the choice to learn, let go, hold on, ignore, or just give up.
You have to remember life is too short to be anything but happy.
Let go of the people who don't treat you right and hold onto the people that do.
Live your life the way you want to and love every second of it.
Don't regret anything because regret is nothing but a waste of your thoughts.
Recognize your mistakes and let them go.
Don't try to grow up too fast and don't hold grudges.
Don't spend your life hating all the things that you can't change.
Enjoy what you have and if you think there is nothing to enjoy, change something.
You have to make your own happiness.
Always remember, sex doesnt equal love.
Just because you think the person you "love" is the one, wait.
If it's real love they will understand and they will wait.
If it is love you want, dont search for it.
That's why they call it falling, you dont mean for it to happen, it just does.
No matter ho much we wish, we can't force someone to love us.
You have to learn to move on and let go.
Don't think about the negative and the things that always seem to reoccur.
Think about the positives.
I WILL get over this. I AM strong.
You are only as happy as you let yourself be.
Dont blame others for your unhappiness.
If the people you hang out with or the person you are dating makes you feel like shit, find new people to be around and find a new person to date because you KNOW you are worth more than that.
Dont be scared of something.
Yea, doing something new can be really scary; going to a new school, meeting new people, making new friends, falling in love.
All of them are scary things, but you have to know that no matter how scared you are now that its not worth ruining something that could be great.
And yes, there is a very large possibility that you might get hurt, but i would rather get hurt than live with the regret of never finding out what could have been.

by lost2theWorld
posted on 05/08/2008