TIM
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| subject: My (lack of a) love life |
posted: Oct 15, 06 11:41 am  |
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I have recently developed feeling for a girl i have known since like forever. We are realy good friends, we share everything and make each other laugh, should i risk that by saying something? The other thing is she is in quite a serious relationship, shes happy i think and i dont want to ruin that so ive kind of decided not to tell her my feelings. I cannot however 100% trust myself so ive decided to ask you (a bunch od strangers HA HA) please give share your view/opinion ill b very greatful. Thank you TIM.
p.s i have also written a poem about this called 'My First Love' look it up. SHAMELESS. |
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sweetxdreamsXOXO
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| subject: i know what situation your in |
posted: Mar 18, 07 6:52 am |
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My situation is similar but the results were a little messier... not really I just want to be dramatic! But my decision was SO dumb I can't believe I had done it then but now I am always thinking to myself 'Thank god I did that.' Ok well I had a crush on this kid and little did I know he liked me back. So we were really close. In gym we would dance next to eachother. We sat at the same table in math class and we would always talk to eachother. Then one day there was a dance. When I was there I didn't have the guts to ask him to dance so I wanted to see if he would ask me put he never did. I almost cried.. wow I'm a dork! Anyway so I wan online that night and he came on so I was talking to him and we were giving eachother descriptions of the person we liked. So then I just decided to put it in my profile so I wouldn't have to tell him in person. So he was like you like me? and i was like ...  and he didnt say anything so I was like do you have any comments before I go? and he said yea i like you too and he asked me out but I told him I didn't want to go out with anyone. I don't regret that now but our friendship is destroyed but if I could go back in time I wouldn't change it. So my advice is that keep it real for now. If she is in a serious relationship, then I would just back off. Believe me I know what girls like, I am one. lol Just wait and don't ruin what you have, I'm telling you this right now and I'm serious. I would like to still be friends with him because he's a really nice person but if you tell her how you feel that could ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel that way about you. I would just wait, let her come to you instead of chasing her, ok? Don't mess up like I did. I hope this helps. If you need more help just ask me ok? My friends say I'm an expert! -Ivy |
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